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What do you do when people flip out on you for no reason?
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Usually I let them speak there mind and when things calm down then I will ask them to explain why they did that.
it depends on who is that "people":)
also it depends on my mood.. if there's tension built up.. then i might flip back at them.. if there's all goooooood.. then i just let em finish and then ask what was that?
then again if they're strangers i guess i let 'em talk... unless they caught me in a bad mood and then i fire right back at 'em!
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I'm not sure-it depends on who it is I guess. I'd usually look at them like their an idiot and ask why they did that! I don't like outbursts of anger and I don't cater to it.
It really depends on the situation and the people. And my mood. I try to just walk away but that does not always work. If that does not work I try to let them have their little fit and then walk away. But sometimes I might just yell back. And the who it is probably plays a big part in that. I mean if it is Hubby I am more likely to yell back (if we are having an unpleasant discussion) or be understanding if I know he has ahd a rough day. If it i a stranger I am going to be more on guard.
As a teacher, I had this happen often with parents. After a while you learn to tune parts out and try to help them vent and work out what is going on. Typically just letting someone calm down helps.
I do not recall that happening, but I suppose it must have, which means I paid little attention to it.
I zone out and leave when I get the chance.
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Not flip out back but certainly chose my words very carefully. Maybe call them out on their bad mood.
Depends on the situation.
I usually just walk away. I don't want to say something that I will regret.
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